Alcoholism, Domestic Violence and Murder among other maladies of Humans have a common factor with AIDS, Death and the common cold – they can strike any age, any class, any race or any person so long as they draw breath. So when I was at the British High Commission the other night and learned of a new initiative from the current Government of Barbados in seeking to alleviate Poverty as a means of curtailing Domestic Violence I was rather surprised, to say the least.
When Michelle Gyles-McDonnough of the UNDP spoke to celebrants of the SAVE Foundation’s 2nd Anniversary at Ben-Mar, she was mindful that while the Caribbean is no longer the “backwater” or “hick” place it was once pictured as, nevertheless there are too many situations where violence was sought as a solution {CLICK ON FOLLOWING LINK FOR FULL AUDIO};-
Indeed when one considers fact and fiction as a reflection of fact, there are numerous examples that Domestic Violence can occupy any level of society… If “Enough” with Jennifer Lopez has any basis in fact, then the abusive spouse in that film came from a rich and privileged family; in my own personal history as you will recall – my parents did not come from dirt-poor backgrounds yet neither were they from as Bajans say “the Heights & Terraces” yet there time spent together was far from blissful; carrying violence to a younger and yet more monied backdrop – Chris Brown and Rihanna are peaking at career levels yet the two former lovebirds had a “divorce” more acrimonious than Kathleen Turner and Michael Douglas in “War Of The Roses” (another well-off couple who abused each other) and on a night which was supposed to be a Highlight for both?
How does one equate Spousal or Partner Violation with just a lack of money? Is it to simply justify one’s Government is engaging a programme to create further grants and sponsorships? The Social Care Ministry’s ISEE as revealed by Minister Steve Blackett is a noble concept if one accepts the premise of it on a prima facie capacity. However, this is too much for anyone to genuinely swallow, by throwing money or teaching partners how to have and keep jobs is not going to make the spectre of violence go away – some spouses feel threatened when their partner can earn as much or even worse MORE money then they do! (Thank God I have never had that problem, worse is wife says even if she makes serious money I have to still be employed – sigh!)
Don’t take my word for it here’s some of what the Minister told participants that night {CLICK ON FOLLOWING LINK FOR FULL AUDIO};-
The Social Care Minister also says ISEE will have excellent auxiliary services to implement its initial ideas and aspirations {CLICK ON FOLLOWING LINK FOR FULL AUDIO};-
When juxtaposed with some frightening statistics of Barbados & Domestic Violence, then how can one genuinely see a corollary between a lack of money and a desire for knuckles over kisses? {CLICK ON FOLLOWING LINK FOR FULL AUDIO};-
It also goes without saying in these current fiscal doldrums Barbados has endured from 2009 onwards that the island can ill afford to be directing money and education in a manner not beneficial to not only battered women (& men) but to unemployed people who also require urgent attention to get back on their feet.
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