“To Threesome or Not to Threesome: Only if it is Your Fantasy!” – RELATIONSHIPS with Sandy Daley

Jim Morrison wrote, “Sex is full of lies. The body tries to tell the truth. But it’s usually too battered with rules to be heard, and bound with pretenses so it can hardly move. We cripple ourselves with lies.” More truthful words have never been written, especially as it relates to the topic of threesomes.

So your man wants a threesome huh? Now, the one thing that I have discovered with this desire is that it really is not a desire, just a passing, upwardly mobile fancy. You and I both know that he will never be able to please both of you at the same time, (even if he takes ten Viagra’s all at once). Someone, more than likely you, will walk away from the experience feeling let down. Also during the experience, he will be thinking, “Damn, I wonder if I should turn to the left or go to the right? Should I nibble here or nibble there?

Award-winning author, radio and TV personality, Sandy Daley's controversial first novel, “Whose Vagina Is It, Really?" has literally taken the world by storm. The book, dedicated to the single and married woman, often discussed, argued and recommended by many, details the lives of women in a modern world.

Award-winning author, radio and TV personality, Sandy Daley‘s controversial first novel, “Whose Vagina Is It, Really?” has literally taken the world by storm. The book, dedicated to the single and married woman, often discussed, argued and recommended by many, details the lives of women in a modern world.

His brain will be so caught up in the technicalities of the deed, that enjoyment for all parties will seriously be jeopardized and compromised. You will be forever thinking, “Geez, now why did he turn to her most of the times during the act and really and truly how ugly do I look to this strange person in my bed at this moment in time? I wonder if she has a hidden camera somewhere here and the next thing that I am going to see is my naked behind on YouTube?”

When a man comes to you with this suggestion, which most men will, as they will all try to test the waters to see how freaky you really are, you quickly answer him: without a pause. “Sure honey, now right after we do your fantasy, can we then do mine? You know that I have always wanted to have a threesome, and really and truly I have always liked the look of your friend Donovan. Does he still have those bow legs?”

{IMAGE VIA - readanddestroy.wordpress.com} Most normal red-blooded man will vehemently shake their heads in disgust and of course say, "NO!" which is what you really want in the first place. Don't let him off the hook as yet though; he brought you here, so you finish it. Continue to further question his logic and the real reason why he is saying no in such a quick manner. I mean, you were ready to say yes to him, weren't you?

{IMAGE VIA - readanddestroy.wordpress.com} Most normal red-blooded man will vehemently shake their heads in disgust and of course say, “NO!” which is what you really want in the first place. Don’t let him off the hook as yet though; he brought you here, so you finish it. Continue to further question his logic and the real reason why he is saying no in such a quick manner. I mean, you were ready to say yes to him, weren’t you?

He will probably say something such as “that’s nasty” as he really lets your suggestion and fantasy requests sink in. You and his boys? How dare you suggest something so evil and vile? Still, don’t let him off the hook! “But you wanted me and another girl didn’t you? So why can’t I have the same thing too? Is your fantasy request more important than mine?” you continue to say. Of course he will say “no“, and it’s just that it is a different thing and you will never understand.

{IMAGE VIA - memcenter.com} His male ego and pride would not allow him to see you in that fashion. To him, you are his property and no one else's; even though you should be willing the share him. More than likely he will then put his fantasy wishes in the background, as every time that he desires to say something to you, his first thought would be your awful, supposedly sick fantasy. Nip it in the bud quickly and you will have nothing to worry about.

{IMAGE VIA - memcenter.com} His male ego and pride would not allow him to see you in that fashion. To him, you are his property and no one else’s; even though you should be willing the share him. More than likely he will then put his fantasy wishes in the background, as every time that he desires to say something to you, his first thought would be your awful, supposedly sick fantasy. Nip it in the bud quickly and you will have nothing to worry about.

Sex should be an enjoyable experience between two people; an opportunity to get closer to your partner in every way. Too often, I find that women will bend over backwards to please their partners, without thinking about how it will affect them in the end.

Yes, you might go along with this to please your man, but really have you thought about what you are doing to yourself? Do not ever engage in something that you will be embarrassed about in the future. At end of the day, the only person staring at you in the mirror is you, and so if you don’t want to engage in a threesome; don’t. But if you do because it is your fantasy, go for it, as being in control of one’s own happiness should be your goal.

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  1. LOL…The famous Donovan…No threesome for me!

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